Inkingi 30 zagufasha kubaka umuryango mwiza ushimwa n’ Imana n’ abantu muri rusange.

Umuryango mwiza ni umuryango ufite ubumwe, urukundo, icyubahiro, n’uburumbuke, kandi ugashimwa n’Imana n’abantu. Ni umuryango wubakiye ku ndangagaciro nziza, wubaha Imana, ukabana neza n’abandi, kandi ugafasha buri wese mu bawugize kugera ku ntego zo mu buzima.

Umuryango mwiza urangwa no kugendera ku mahame y’urukundo n’ubwubahane, kandi ugafasha abantu bose mu bawugize kugira umutekano w’umutima, umubiri, n’ubuzima bw’umwuka.

INKINGI ZIREBA IMYUMVIRE N’IMYITWARIRE

1. Urukundo Rutaryarya:
   Urukundo rugomba kuba inkingi ya mbere. Imana iduhamagara gukundana nk’uko Kristo yadukunze (1 Abakorinto 13:4-7).
2. Icyubahiro n’Umutekano:
   Abagize umuryango bagomba kubahana no kubahiriza buri wese, cyane hagati y’umugabo n’umugore (Abefeso 5:33).
3. Kwicisha bugufi:
   Mu muryango mwiza, buri wese agomba kugira umutima wicisha bugufi kandi akemera gukosorwa no kwiga (Abafilipi 2:3).
4. Kugendera ku ndangagaciro za Bibiliya:
   Umuryango ugomba gushyira imbere ugushaka kw’Imana no gukurikiza Ijambo ryayo.
5. Imbaraga z’Isengesho:
   Gusenga hamwe nk’umuryango ni ingenzi cyane mu kubaka umubano ukomeye hagati y’abagize umuryango n’Imana.
6. Imiyoborere myiza y’umuryango:
   Umugabo cyangwa umugore bagomba kuyobora umuryango wabo bagendeye ku bwenge no ku ndangagaciro z’Imana (1 Timoteyo 3:4-5).
7. Kwizerana:
   Umuryango mwiza ugomba kubakira ku bwizerane hagati y’abashakanye no hagati y’abana n’ababyeyi.
8. Kwirinda Kuryaryana:
   Umuryango mwiza ugomba kwirinda uburiganya, ikinyoma, n’uburyarya (Abakolosayi 3:9).
9. Gusabana neza:
   Kugirana ibiganiro bitandukanye kandi byubaka hagati y’abagize umuryango bituma umuryango ugira ubumwe.
10. Kubabarirana:
    Nta muryango uzabaho igihe cyose mu bwuzuzanye utababarirana ibyaha no kwicisha bugufi (Abakolosayi 3:13).

INKINGI ZIREBA IMIBEREHO Y’UBUZIMA

11. Kwitangira Umuryango:
    Ababyeyi bagomba gutanga umwanya n’imbaraga zo gukorera umuryango wabo, cyane cyane mu kurera abana neza.
12. Ubumwe mu Rugo:
    Abagize umuryango bagomba gukorera hamwe nk’ikipe mu gukemura ibibazo no kugera ku ntego.
13. Imirimo n’Ubushobozi:
    Umuryango ukomeye ukora kandi ugaharanira gutera imbere mu bushobozi bwabo.
14. Kwigisha abana Indangagaciro nziza:
    Abana bagomba kurererwa mu buryo bw’Imana, bigishwa gukunda Imana no gukurikiza Ijambo ryayo (Imigani 22:6).
15. Gushimira Imana mu byiza no mu bikomeye:
    Gushima Imana bigomba kuba umuco w’umuryango, uko byamera kose.
16. Kurinda Umutekano w’Umuryango:
    Gushakira umutekano abagize umuryango, haba mu buzima bw’umubiri, ubw’ibitekerezo, n’ubw’umwuka.
17. Ihuriro ry’Imiryango:
    Gukomeza umubano n’imiryango y’aho mukomoka cyangwa inshuti, bigakomeza umuryango.
18. Gufata umwanya wo Kwishima:
    Umuryango mwiza ugomba kugira iminsi y’ibyishimo n’ibikorwa byo gusabana.
19. Gucunga neza umutungo:
    Gukoresha umutungo neza, kumvikana ku buryo bwo kuwucunga, no kwirinda imyenda itari ngombwa.
20. Kurera abana bahamye:
    Kubatoza kubaha Imana, kubaha abantu, no kugira imico myiza bigira uruhare mu kubaka ejo heza.

INKINGI ZIREBA IMIBANO N’IMIBANIRE

21. Ubudahemuka hagati y’Abashakanye:
    Umuryango ushobora gukomera iyo umugabo n’umugore bafite indangagaciro z’ubudahemuka.
22. Ubupfura mu Mibanire:
    Kugendera ku mico y’ubupfura mu buryo bwo kuvugana no gufata abandi neza.
23. Gutanga Urugero rwiza:
    Ababyeyi bagomba kuba urugero rwiza ku bana babo mu myitwarire no mu mibanire.
24. Kumvikanisha impaka:
    Mu muryango mwiza, ikibazo cyose gikemurwa mu mahoro n’ibiganiro.
25. Kwita ku Bakene:
    Gusabana n’abandi, cyane abafite ibibazo, bituma umuryango urushaho guhesha Imana icyubahiro.
26. Gufatanya mu Murimo w’Imana:
    Umuryango ukora ibikorwa by’ubutumwa cyangwa ukagira uruhare mu murimo w’Imana wunga ubumwe kandi ushimwa na benshi.
27. Kubaha Imana hejuru ya byose:
    Abagize umuryango bagomba gushyira Imana imbere mu byo bakora byose (Yosuwa 24:15).
28. Kwihanganirana mu Makosa:
    Nta muryango ubaho udakora amakosa. Kwihanganirana ni ishingiro ryo gukomeza umubano.
29. Gufatanya Gutera imbere:
    Gushyira hamwe mu kubaka iterambere ry’umuryango, haba mu by’umwuka, imibereho, n’ubukungu.
30. Kugira Umutima W’umucyo:
    Kwirinda ibintu byose byazana ibibazo, nk’umujinya w’ubusa, guhora wiyumvamo ubugome cyangwa urwango.

Umwanzuro:
Umuryango mwiza ni uwo kubakira ku Mana, kuko ari yo soko y’urukundo n’iterambere rirambye. Kwitoza izi nkingi bigufasha kubaka umuryango urangwa n’ubwumvikane, urukundo, icyubahiro, no kugera ku mishinga y’Imana.

“Ariko jyewe n’umuryango wanjye tuzakorera Uwiteka.” (Yosuwa 24:15)